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Charity Maniates, MSPA, MPH, PA-C practices geriatric medicine in Maine.<\/p>\n
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<\/p><\/div>My 19-month-old son wrapped his legs around my waist and pointed to the fluorescent ceiling light centered over the small hospital bed. I noticed the tiny hospital gown and socks in plastic packaging waiting to be opened. A brightly colored stacking toy sat on the window sill next to the computer and piped-in gas lines. The Child Life Specialist, by our side since arriving, picked up the toy, momentarily fixing my son\u2019s attention on stacking. I took that moment to sit him on the hospital bed, change his diaper, and slip him into the shapeless gown. He cried, holding his ears, and then tried to pull off the socks dangling from his feet. A small, clear face mask was gently introduced and placed in his hands, along with Sesame Street stickers. Touching the mask, he looked at me and said, \u201cElmo!\u201d and with his small fingertips placed each sticker haphazardly on the rim of the mask.<\/p>\n
My son was scheduled to have a myringotomy, a straightforward procedure, though it may as well have been a complicated surgery from my perspective as a worried mother. Nurses and physicians swirled in and out of our room until the nurse said, \u201cIt\u2019s time.\u201d Sitting in the wheelchair, I held my restless son, his favorite knitted blanket tucked around him as we traversed the brightly lit hallway to the OR. He squirmed, started to cry, and called \u201cDada!\u201d over and over, desperate to leave the wheelchair.<\/p>\n
On the outside, I was calm and reassuring, but I felt his terror and wanted to cry too. The wheelchair was locked next to the OR table. The anesthesiologist firmly pressed the tiny mask coated with grape scent and stickers around his small face; his eyes fluttered and he quickly stopped moving in my lap. A waft of the gas passed my nostrils and dissipated in the sterile OR. Carefully lifted from my lap, he was placed on the OR table and I leaned down to kiss his hand, forcing myself to leave him. As a parent, it was a terrifying experience that is now embedded in my mind forever; yet as a clinician, I knew that there was little risk for complications during the 10-minute procedure. Thankfully, the procedure went well, and my son had immediate relief the day after the tubes were placed.<\/p>\n
The anxiety and helplessness that I felt during a straightforward procedure for my son was reflective of what my patients and families feel when receiving a new diagnosis or hearing that they need a CT scan, ultrasound or blood transfusion. As providers, our days are filled with workups, imaging, surgical procedures, and delivering news that is difficult to hear. Couching treatment options that reflect a patient-provider relationship rather than a paternalistic framework is an essential part of medicine. Asking \u201cWhat are YOUR thoughts or concerns if you start this medication or have this test?\u201d opens a conversation to explore underlying fears, clarify a misunderstanding, or broach goals of care. It\u2019s guaranteed that elders and their families will appreciate the extra time a healthcare provider spends to actively solicit their perspectives and reach a decision together. The emphasis on providing a play-centered environment during and after my son\u2019s medical procedure helped the process immensely. Observing his care, I couldn\u2019t help but think of my own patients and wish that we had geriatric life specialists to help them navigate hospital admissions and transitions to long-term care environments. There are certainly some positive changes happening in that direction. Some hospitals are now identifying patients at risk for delirium and implementing simple changes to their environments that are reducing hospital stays and improving outcomes. In the long-term care setting, where nursing homes have long been notorious as places of decline, a model called The Eden Alternative (introduced in the 1990s by a Harvard physician) focuses on elder growth rather than decline, encouraging partnerships between patients and care teams. This approach leans away from institutionalization and aims to reduce loneliness, boredom and helplessness by creating environments that are embedded with supportive, spontaneous human contact, tailored to each individual. What a refreshing, human concept! The reality is that elders waiting for hours in the ED after a fall develop delirium, nursing homes are regimented and understaffed, and many elders are not living in safe, independent living environments. Not all elders have family or advocates. Many are alone or have family who live across the country or have limited involvement and are thus unaware of their slow decline. When an acute medical event forces their presentation in our medical systems, they are often unable to advocate for themselves, have unclear goals of care resulting in poor outcomes, and require extra community support and coordination of care.<\/p>\n Whether your patient is a fragile 19-month-old or a wise 98-year-old, our role as healthcare providers is to connect with a gentle human touch, to ease people’s suffering, and listen to their fears as they navigate the unfamiliar hallways of our medical institutions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" My 19-month-old son wrapped his legs around my waist and pointed to the fluorescent ceiling light centered over the small hospital bed. I noticed the tiny hospital gown and socks in plastic packaging waiting to be opened. A brightly colored stacking toy sat on the window sill next to the computer and piped-in gas lines. 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