{"id":646,"date":"2016-08-18T17:28:43","date_gmt":"2016-08-18T17:28:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/frontlines-clinical-medicine\/?p=646"},"modified":"2016-08-23T20:46:09","modified_gmt":"2016-08-23T20:46:09","slug":"the-caregiver-conundrum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/frontlines-clinical-medicine\/2016\/08\/18\/the-caregiver-conundrum\/","title":{"rendered":"The Caregiver Conundrum"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Charity

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Charity Maniates, MSPA, MPH, PA-C practices geriatric medicine in Maine.<\/p>\n

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My patient\u2019s daughter, Jane, sits tensely on the edge of the wingback chair. Leaning forward slightly, her body, like a jack-in-the-box, stays seated, and she fires the question, \u201cDo you really think my mother is ready to come home? Is this safe?\u201d<\/p>\n

Rippling beneath her intense body language and direct questioning is a pervasive fear that a catastrophe will occur if she brings her mother home. This anxiety swirls and lingers when families visit and observe loved ones struggling. My softly couched reply is concise: after a hip fracture, elders may have difficulty returning to their previous baseline. Embedded in this simplistic response are many variables impacting progress: comorbidities, dementia, fragility, and medications. Data show that elders with hip fractures experience increased infections and an increased risk of death within one year.<\/p>\n

Jane\u2019s 87-year-old mother, a woman with an indelible smile and sweet disposition, speaks only a few words and sentences due to advanced dementia. A few weeks earlier, a simple trip at home resulted in a hip fracture, a visit to the ED, and surgery. Although the hip repair was uneventful, pain impeded her progress. During rehab, it became apparent to her daughter that she requires assistance with transfers and ambulation and cannot be left alone, even for a few hours \u2014 a terrifying prospect for a caregiver overwhelmed with the emotional and financial responsibility of 24-hour care and work responsibilities. \"eyes_closed-509431706\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Jane continues to talk, rapidly, as though the solution will unveil itself at some point in her thoughts. Although she has ample supports in place \u2014 an adult daycare program and home companions \u2014 she works full time and travels, and leaves her mother home alone for a few hours or overnight with an aunt who has mild dementia. Now, she will not be able to do this. I delicately probe, asking what is her most pressing concern. She leaps at the question and says, \u201cI\u2019m the only one to take care of her. What happens if I collapse and can\u2019t do this? What will happen to her?\u201d I don\u2019t have a good answer. Nor am I able to offer any long-term resources she has not accessed aside from nursing home care.<\/span><\/p>\n

She is far from alone in her quandary. Of the massive cohort of 65+ adults that is growing exponentially, an estimated two-thirds will require long-term care (Kemper, Komisar, & Alecxih, 2005\u20132006), and nearly half will spend time in a nursing home (Spillman & Lubitz, 2002). Moreover, the average 65-year-old will spend $138,000 in future long-term-care service costs (Favreault & Dey, 2015), and those with dementia will incur substantially higher costs. Although nursing home care is primarily covered by Medicare and Medicaid, these massive structures must be bolstered through changes in policy and funding to sustain the growing demand for long-term care. For instance, legislation<\/a> reintroduced in February of 2015 by Congresswoman Jan Schakowsky (D-IL) proposes increasing registered nurser (RN) coverage from the current federal mandate of only 8 hours daily to 24 hours\/7 days a week. This would potentially improve quality of care, improve the ability to respond and assess patients, and allow for more personalized care that families and patients seek. If the act passes, nursing homes would receive Medicare and\/or Medicaid reimbursement for the expanded RN coverage and would ultimately see improvement in quality care measures.<\/p>\n

So, lacking a solution for her, I take a moment to validate her role as the primary caregiver and recognize how overwhelming it is. Pausing intentionally, I gently ask her if she\u2019s ever considered an alternative such as long-term care. Inwardly, I cringe, wanting to offer a polished program or eco-friendly housing, rather than an institutionalized structure, to replace the personal care that a doting daughter has provided for years.\"eyes_covered-564595244\"<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

Her shoulders and head droop, and she can\u2019t hold back the tears. \u201cI feel so guilty! I told my mother she may not be able to stay at home, but that\u2019s all she wants!\u201d Guilt. A powerful driving force that keeps caregivers from placing a loved one in institutionalized care. And it\u2019s quite understandable that caregivers have difficulty releasing their loved ones to a system trying to respond to the needs of the many, which cannot provide care with the caregiver\u2019s intimate knowledge of a subtle tone of voice, a facial expression, or a favorite food. But the extensive tasks required to care for an elder with advancing dementia are taxing 365 days, year after year. Every aspect of care requires assistance: eating, drinking, toileting, dressing, and medication management. The tradition of elders living their last days in the family home is dwindling, and the only options are nursing home care and private care at home for those with financial resources. Both options can deplete a lifetime of savings quickly for the majority of working class families.<\/p>\n

Our conversation starts to wind down, and she looks relieved that she vocalized her concerns and that I validated her deep-rooted fears. Taking a deep breath, she says, \u201cOnly time will tell if she improves, and I\u2019ll go from there.\u201d Grasping my hand tightly, she thanks me for talking. I smile, telling her that if her mother is not doing well at home, she should call the facility and her mother could return to skilled care. It\u2019s the only short-term option I can offer her \u2014 providing a few extra days or weeks of care.<\/p>\n

Turning to walk away, I glimpse her mother eating at the dining room table, and for a few minutes, I find solace in the fact that I was able to provide brief support to an overextended caregiver. The feeling is fleeting. I sigh sadly, knowing that Jane will be placing her mother inside the unfamiliar walls of a nursing home within a few months. <\/p>\n

References<\/h4>\n

Favreault M, Dey J. Long-term services and supports for older Americans: Risks and financing. ASPE Research Brief. 2015.<\/p>\n

Harris-Kojetin L, Sengupta M, Park-Lee E, et al. Long-term care providers and services users in the United States: Data from the National Study of Long-Term Care Providers, 2013\u20132014. National Center for Health Statistics. Vital Health Stat 3(38). 2016.<\/p>\n

Kemper P, Komisar HL, Alecxih L. Long-term care over an uncertain future: What can current retirees expect? Inquiry 42(4):335\u201350. 2005\u20132006.<\/p>\n

Spillman BC, Lubitz J. New estimates of lifetime nursing home use: Have patterns of use changed? MedCare 40(10):965\u201375. 2002.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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