{"id":2414,"date":"2018-02-08T15:30:55","date_gmt":"2018-02-08T20:30:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/general-medicine\/?p=2414"},"modified":"2018-02-08T15:30:55","modified_gmt":"2018-02-08T20:30:55","slug":"doctoring-in-lipstick","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/general-medicine\/index.php\/2018\/02\/doctoring-in-lipstick\/","title":{"rendered":"Doctoring in Lipstick"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Cassie<\/a>

Cassie Shaw, MD, is a 2017-18 Chief Resident in Internal Medicine at Saint Louis University Hospital in Saint Louis, MO<\/p><\/div>\n

Why do I feel weird wearing lipstick in the hospital? Why do I have to announce myself as a doctor to gain respect from patients and other members of the hospital staff? In my short time as a physician, I have yet to find the answer to these questions, but they seem to lie in my set of XX chromosomes. As in all other areas of life as a female, being a doctor comes with a different set of rules than that of my male colleagues. These rules are never mentioned or taught, but they are apparent the first time you step foot into the role. We aren\u2019t men, but we need to fit in with them and act like them \u2014\u00a0but we also have to act like women, in the right ways, of course. Confused yet? Same. Let\u2019s consider some questions about the abilities of a physician who\u2019s also a woman.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The photos in this post are dedicated to my female colleagues who are all creating their own mold as physicians. Brit, Physical Medicine and Rehab; Ellen, Internal Medicine and Michaela, Emergency Medicine<\/p><\/div>\n

Question 1<\/h3>\n

Can she be a leader? Can she provide medical care and make critical decisions? Yes, with tremendous effort. I quickly learned to state my role clearly when walking into a room. \u201cHello, Mr. X, I am your doctor<\/i>.\u201d Of course, it\u2019s inevitable that a patient, nurse, or family member will ask to talk to the \u201creal doctor,\u201d or\u00a0say \u201coh, I\u2019m not used to a lady doctor,\u201d or reference a male colleague as \u201cthe <\/i>doctor.\u201d Even worse is\u00a0when staff members\u00a0double-check with a male in the room to see\u00a0if my<\/i> plan was the<\/i> medical plan for the patient. Meanwhile, none of my male colleagues have ever been assumed to be any healthcare professional other than a doctor.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Manasa, Anesthesiology; Harita, Pediatrics; Alison, Dermatology<\/p><\/div>\n

\u00a0Question 2<\/h3>\n

Can a woman who is physician also be feminine?\u00a0If we do not wear makeup, we are asked if we are sick or having bad day. If we do wear lipstick or a skirt, negative assumptions are made about our IQ and our abilities as a doctor. Not only is our appearance a careful balance, but so are our interactions. A woman cannot use even the slightest tone of forcefulness when advocating for her patient without being labeled as that 5-letter word that begins with a b: bossy. In fact, if we aren\u2019t sugary sweet, we are quickly written off as being angry, rude, or a another 5-letter word that begins with a b. (Use your imagination.) Meanwhile, when my male colleagues do the same, it\u00a0causes a flurry of action to complete the task they\u2019ve asked to be done without a single mention of his mood, how his day must be going, or his hormones.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Krishna, Internal Medicine<\/p><\/div>\n

Question 3<\/h3>\n

Can women work as physicians and have a home life? Yes, but to many,\u00a0your home life is more important than your career life. Ultimately, society doesn\u2019t judge us by our accomplishments at the bedside, but on those within the home. Am I married? Have I had children? (Shouldn\u2019t the real question be, why does it matter? I spent 23 years completing the rigorous education and training required to obtain the job I dreamed of and that accomplishment is swiftly diminished by these two questions.) I have a huge fear of moving forward with having children because I wonder\u00a0what might\u00a0 <\/span>happen to my career. The life of a physician is far from flexible. My partner (and the would-be baby-daddy in this hypothetical scenario) is also a physician, but you can have one guess as to who society would expect to\u00a0give up a portion of their career in order to raise a child. Or worse, if I did not cut back at work and hired help instead, I would be that terrible mother whose children are \u201craised by a nanny.\u201d Again, not a word would be said about my partner\u2019s work load as a physician who is male. <\/span><\/p>\n

Okay, if it wasn\u2019t obvious, I\u2019m being facetious when asking and answering these questions. Women can be, and are, accomplished, astute clinicians, who are leaders in their fields and at the bedside, all while wearing whatever makeup they choose and maintaining whatever work-life balance they desire. However, these are all challenges that they face daily. I attribute many of these challenges to the way women entered the role of a physician. Like all of our roles in male-dominated fields, women before me fought to obtain foothold here. They weren\u2019t welcomed as physicians in their own right, so they squeezed themselves as closely as they could into the mold of a physician created by their male counterparts. It\u2019s obvious, though, that we aren\u2019t made to fit that mold. We have our own mold, but that does not preclude us from being excellent physicians.<\/span><\/p>\n

Recently, as I reflected on all of these experiences, I decided to make a change. I started small: I wore lipstick while on service. Initially, it was uncomfortable and awkward but when I assisted my intern with her first lumbar puncture while rocking my sassy pink lipstick, it was a tiny, but\u00a0empowering, salute to my femininity. I had both worlds exactly as I wanted them. I wasn\u2019t blending into my male-dominated surroundings. I was forming my own mold. It wasn\u2019t just about lipstick anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Lauren, Ophthalmology; Steph, Pulmonology and Critical Care<\/p><\/div>\n

So, to end this blog, I\u2019m looking right at my co-physicians who also happen to be women. Remember, we aren\u2019t female physicians or \u201clady doctors.\u201d There is no need for that gender-defining adjective. We are physicians and, ladies, we are crushing it. We are balancing things our male counterparts would never dare to try and can never understand. However, we are still doing it all within the mold created by men. It\u2019s time to break out of that mold. It\u2019s time to show off our power and stop blending. It\u2019s time to do things our own way.<\/p>\n

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