{"id":1121,"date":"2010-10-12T11:54:22","date_gmt":"2010-10-12T15:54:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/?p=1121"},"modified":"2022-01-19T12:31:58","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T17:31:58","slug":"worlds-collide-roberto-alomar-and-hiv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/worlds-collide-roberto-alomar-and-hiv\/2010\/10\/12\/","title":{"rendered":"Worlds Collide:  Roberto Alomar and HIV"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-1123\" title=\"When-Worlds-Collide\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2010\/10\/When-Worlds-Collide1.jpg\" alt=\"When-Worlds-Collide\" width=\"238\" height=\"333\" \/>Now that a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nypost.com\/p\/news\/national\/wife_takes_hack_at_alomar_MKZ4Wx7vUF2lX78MHe859O\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">second woman<\/a> has accused Roberto Alomar of\u00a0having HIV, it&#8217;s probably time to give this sad story a look-over.\u00a0 After all, how often do these two worlds of mine &#8212; HIV\/ID (work) and baseball (lifetime hobby &#8212; my wife would say that&#8217;s a collosal\u00a0understatement) actually meet?<\/p>\n<p>For those unfamiliar with the basics:\u00a0 Alomar was a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.baseball-reference.com\/players\/a\/alomaro01.shtml\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">staggeringly good player<\/a>, in the majors from 1988-2004, winning 10 Gold Glove Awards and making the\u00a0All Star team 12 times. He very nearly was elected this year to the Hall of Fame\u00a0in\u00a0his first year of eligibility (a very big deal), and all the baseball cognescenti think he&#8217;s an eventual shoe-in since he&#8217;s one of the best second basemen in history.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the good part.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, there was this strange <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Roberto_Alomar#Spitting_incident\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">spitting incident<\/a>. And then, in 2009, an ex-girlfriend <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nydailynews.com\/gossip\/2009\/02\/10\/2009-02-10_15m_lawsuit_claims_exmet_roberto_alomar_.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">filed a $15 million lawsuit<\/a> saying he lied about his HIV status; Alomar denied the charges (<a href=\"http:\/\/sports.espn.go.com\/mlb\/news\/story?id=3900719\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sort of<\/a>), and was defended by his then girlfriend &#8212; who later became his wife. Then last week, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nypost.com\/p\/news\/national\/wife_takes_hack_at_alomar_MKZ4Wx7vUF2lX78MHe859O\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the wife sued Alomar<\/a> with similar allegations.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t get into the &#8220;she-said, he-said&#8221; part, as I have no information beyond what&#8217;s available in the press. But if we start with the premise that Alomar might have HIV, here are some general thoughts:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Any reason why someone with HIV <em>couldn&#8217;t<\/em> play baseball?\u00a0 I can&#8217;t think of one.<\/li>\n<li>Could\u00a0there be anything further from <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/sportsillustrated.cnn.com\/vault\/article\/magazine\/MAG1140267\/index.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Magic Johnson&#8217;s 1991 disclosure<\/a> <\/strong>than these sordid legal proceedings? \u00a0As I recall, Johnson&#8217;s wife was extraordinarily supportive, at least as relayed to the public. Then he used his HIV diagnosis as a way to encourage people to find out their status, to protect others from getting infected, and\u00a0to take advantage of treatment &#8212; an incredible example of turning something terrifying and stigmatized (especially in the early 1990s) into something good. One of John Bartlett&#8217;s favorite comments is that hepatitis C needs a Magic Johnson to make its case.\u00a0 (No,<strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Evel_Knievel#Declining_health_and_death\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Evel Knievel<\/a>,<\/strong> may he R.I.P,\u00a0does not count.)<\/li>\n<li>Related to the above, you can be sure society&#8217;s reaction to Magic Johnson&#8217;s disclosure would have been different if he&#8217;d acquired HIV from injection drug use or sex with men. (Read the section &#8220;Time to Move On&#8221;<strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/espn.go.com\/gen\/s\/2001\/1105\/1273720.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a><\/strong> for how this issue has been reported.)\u00a0 One of the painful things about HIV is the tendency for many to lump cases into those perceived as\u00a0&#8220;innocent&#8221; vs &#8220;he\/she deserved it.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>For another stark example of how HIV differs from other serious diseases\u00a0(even those related to\u00a0unhealthy choices), Hall of Famer Tony Gwynn has just been<strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/sports.espn.go.com\/mlb\/news\/story?id=5665646\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">diagnosed with salivary gland cancer<\/a><\/strong>, likely due to chewing tobacco. The response?\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/myespn.go.com\/s\/conversations\/show\/story\/5665646\/sort\/oldest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mostly sympathy<\/a><\/strong>, very little blame or snark.<\/li>\n<li>Last, here&#8217;s a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flipflopflyin.com\/flipflopflyball\/info-homosexuality.html\"><strong>great graphic<\/strong><\/a> on how major league baseball players compare to the rest of society.\u00a0 Pretty much says it all.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>My view?\u00a0 I\u00a0hope Alomar gets elected to the Hall of Fame next year &#8212; from the baseball perspective he definitely deserves it.<\/p>\n<p>And if he does have HIV, wouldn&#8217;t that be something if he acknowledged it\u00a0during his acceptance speech in Cooperstown.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Now that a second woman has accused Roberto Alomar of\u00a0having HIV, it&#8217;s probably time to give this sad story a look-over.\u00a0 After all, how often do these two worlds of mine &#8212; HIV\/ID (work) and baseball (lifetime hobby &#8212; my wife would say that&#8217;s a collosal\u00a0understatement) actually meet? For those unfamiliar with the basics:\u00a0 Alomar [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,5,7],"tags":[54,102,423,559],"class_list":["post-1121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-hiv","category-infectious-diseases","category-misc","tag-alomar","tag-baseball","tag-hiv","tag-legal"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1121","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1121"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1121\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1121"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1121"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1121"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}