{"id":9910,"date":"2020-12-06T14:26:17","date_gmt":"2020-12-06T19:26:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/?p=9910"},"modified":"2020-12-06T14:26:17","modified_gmt":"2020-12-06T19:26:17","slug":"getting-through-a-grim-dark-winter-with-little-bits-of-joy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.nejm.org\/hiv-id-observations\/index.php\/getting-through-a-grim-dark-winter-with-little-bits-of-joy\/2020\/12\/06\/","title":{"rendered":"Getting Through a Grim, Dark Winter with Little Bits of Joy"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Squirrel, from Edouard Joseph d\u2019Alton’s Illustrations of Animal Skeletons (1821\u20131838).<\/p><\/div>\n

The season’s first nor’easter came barreling through New England this weekend, bringing with it an added level of gloom to an already pretty grim time.<\/p>\n

Grim because the virus sadly returned right on time, just like the other seasonal coronaviruses<\/a> — and just like the virologists told us it would.<\/p>\n

Short days, cold dark nights, wintry mix — never a fun trio. Add to that canceled vacations. Makeshift holiday “parties” that involve the computer. No hugs with extended family and friends.<\/p>\n

And, worst of all, the rising toll of suffering, disability, and death, extending across our whole country. Ouch.<\/p>\n

But — just as the world seemingly couldn’t get any darker, we now have a way out. With effective vaccines imminently available, there is genuine hope for putting this nasty virus in our rearview mirrors, or at least rendering it a minor nuisance. We just have to get through this winter first.<\/p>\n

“We’re in the 7th inning”, said Dr. Michael Klompas, our hospital’s head of infection control, mobilizing a perfect metaphor — better than my rearview mirror one, so forgive me, Mike, for stealing it.<\/p>\n

Every team gets 27 outs. Thanks to the tireless collaborative work of clinicians, scientists, researchers, public health officials, and study volunteers, the virus now has 18, and we (the home team) can take a slim lead with responsible behavior, broader access to testing<\/a>, and widespread immunization.<\/p>\n

Can we hunker down enough over the next few months to get the last 9 outs?<\/p>\n

I’m proposing here that one key to getting through this winter is taking advantage of the little bits of joy that pop up periodically, reminding us that life goes on. Enjoying them. Being grateful for them. Sharing them.<\/p>\n

It could be preparing a great meal with your family. Or, if you want to support your local restaurants<\/a>, getting some special take-out, with a splurge on a bottle of wine. (Don’t forget the generous tip.)<\/p>\n

Or take a wintry walk in the woods with a friend, all bundled up, taking advantage of the natural safety outdoor activities consistently give us when it comes to this pandemic life. Enjoy a properly distanced outdoor meal with another friend on an unseasonably warm day (they do happen) — have just discovered hot water bottles<\/a>, they are miraculous!<\/p>\n

Read that great but too-long book everyone has raved about for years. Middlemarch<\/em> is particularly wonderful — doctoring and hospitals play a major role<\/a>\u00a0in the plot. If reading isn’t your thing, watch a serialized version of great literature — this\u00a0Bleak House<\/em> production<\/a> is one of the very best things I’ve ever seen on television. Choose your favorite number 1 hit single.<\/a>\u00a0Or your least<\/em> favorite, they’re just as fun.<\/a> Enjoy some top 5-minute excerpts of Beethoven<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Random, little stuff too — here are a few more joy bits that came across my path this past week.<\/p>\n

1. The brilliant cover to this week’s The New Yorker<\/em>, with an extraordinary recreation.<\/strong> The talent and creativity of humankind never ceases to amaze. I’m particularly struck by the cocktail glasses — the color, fill, and tilt match so nicely!<\/p>\n

https:\/\/twitter.com\/nilknarfamme\/status\/1334158039360933888?s=20<\/p>\n

2. My brother and sister-in-law’s new puppy, Zelda Fitzgerald.<\/strong> No further comment necessary.<\/p>\n

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3. How to make an AC\/DC song in 30 seconds. <\/strong>Angus Young, the lead guitarist of the band, once said \u201cI’m sick and tired of people saying that we put out 11 albums that sound exactly the same. In fact, we’ve put out 12 albums that sound exactly the same.\u201d<\/p>\n