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  1. Alice Cole
    December 17, 2025

    Thank you, Dr Sax. I am retired, but all clinicians have an opportunity to build rapport when they touch patients. I did careful physical exams on my gyn patients until the day I left. Why? They expected it and thought I was a brilliant clinician for doing them. Touch patients! Look them in the eye! I was always running behind, but every one of my colleagues would comment at one time or another, “Patients tell you such intimate details. How do you do it?” I touched them! I looked them in the eye! I asked the questions we are supposed to ask, and then I listened, and then I documented. Happy Holidays!

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  2. Bruce Gerencser
    December 17, 2025

    I have been diagnosed over the years with fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, exocrine pancreatic insufficiency, and degenerative spine disease. And then there’s the symptoms no one can figure out. I’ve seen numerous specialists over the past 20 years. Rare is the doctor who actually touches me. I understand the importance of tests — I’ve had more of them than I can count — but actually touching me (and looking at me) suggests care. When my primary care physician — who has treated me for 30 years) sighs at my latest problems, I know he wishes he could do more. He says I am an anigma, hard to treat. I see him every three months. Without fail, when I leave he tries to encourage me, both with his words and by touching me — a handshake, a hug, or a gentle hand on my shoulder.

    I don’t expect doctors to “fix” me. I know there’s little they can do for me. However, every doctor can be kind, thoughtful, and friendly. Sadly, I have known a few doctors who are arrogant, self-entitled $*##$@#$. Years ago, I visited a teenager in the hospital who was having major surgery on her heart (which required stoping her heart). She was scared, to say the least. When the doctor came in before the surgery and asked her to sign the consent form, she freaked out and refused to sign it. Instead of trying to understand where the girl was coming from, he yelled at her and threw the clipboard on the bed. Needless to say, I gave him an earful. I then quietly, patiently talked with the girl and she signed.

    I’ve met some wonderful doctors over the years; men and women who loved their work and their patients. Unfortunately, as with every profession, there are some doctors who lack the ability (or desire) to be thoughtful human beings.

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  3. Mimi Breed
    December 17, 2025

    Other wise the patient feels you are treating a lab value, not a patient, and may be less willing to comply with medical advice.

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  4. Scott R Helmers
    December 18, 2025

    Very enjoyable. Retired family doctor, I had once heard–and learned–that patients expect to be examined. Maybe not the younger adults, but certainly my more geriatric ones did. I tried to do so. Those few moments were invaluable for my findings and their confidence in me. As aluded above, I also recall doing my routine exam and hearing a heart mumur. No prior comment of it in my record. A new aortic valve problem needing surgery. As above also, I had occasion to have cardiologist exam at world famous medical center. I was 77, and he was older than I. He performed exams I hadn’t thought of since medical school.

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  5. Loretta S
    December 18, 2025

    Physical exams can even be a little fun for the patient! When I suspect the patient may have pneumonia and I check for egophony, I tell them “This is the Sesame Street portion of the exam” as I ask them to say EEEEE while listening to their lungs. That always brings a smile, even in someone both of us are worried may have pneumonia.

    Also want to give a shoutout to JAMA’s long running series, The Rational Clinical Examination. Each entry is specific-problem-based, but I have learned a lot about general physical exams from those articles over the years. https://jamanetwork.com/collections/6257/the-rational-clinical-examination

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  6. Joel Gallant
    December 18, 2025

    I think back to significant abnormalities I’ve picked on routine physical examinations in asymptomatic patients. Plenty of skin lesions, the occasional significant heart murmur, a hepatoma in a patient with chronic hepatitis B. But I can’t think of a time when auscultating the lungs of a patient with no respiratory complaints was ever useful. That being said, what would a patient think if I examined him without including the “take some big breaths through your mouth” portion, a necessary ritual!

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